What do you do when you don't approve of your friend's boy friend?

I know what you are thinking. You think I should butt out right? Mind my own business right? Let me give you the details. We have been friends since primary school. Our parents knew each other. Her X is my best friend.

One day last month she just call me & gush about how she has met this wonderfully talented guy in a pub. He's here for a short gig & will be going back to the states after. A week later, her mum called me (her mum has never call me before) so I know this must be serious. Well she told me to "talk some sense " into my friend. At first I thought it's only a knee jerk effect of her daughter dating a foreigner , so I didnt give it much thought. Hey, I'm open to any interracial couplings.

Then last night they came over to my place for a gathering. I open the door to them & saw her with this ang moh guy who had a line across his neck imprinted with the words CUT HERE! and he's bald & he does reminds me of Colin Farrell as "BullsEye " from the movie Daredevil ! He looks as menacing too. I know we are not suppose to 'judge a book by it's cover' , but isn't this a bit too much? All I hope is, it's just a phase....

BullsEye, Colin Farrell - DareDevil